How You Doin’ Blondie?

Go to him now, he calls you, you can’t refuse
October 23, 2007, 12:58 am
Filed under: dating, Life, love, lust, relationships, sex | Tags: , , , , , ,

I want him. Badly. I want his lips on mine. I want his hands up my skirt. I want to feel him get hard through his jeans. I need it.

Very rarely do I actually pursue what I want. I let things happen to me. I let men choose me. I let relationships develop that I know won’t amount to much.

Well I’m done.

I’m done scheduling my day around hoping to catch a fleeting glimpse of him. I’m done with becoming incredibly depressed if he doesn’t wave to me when he drives by. I want a to get to know him better. I want a romantic relationship to develop between us. I want a sexual relationship to develop between us.

I’ve decided to just go for it. I’m not sure exactly what I’m going to do, but I’m going to do something. I’ve never made the first move before, and I’m scared as hell. But I’m more scared of standing on this street forever, waiting for the other guy to draw.

Dr. J is encouraging me. He thinks that maybe by taking the initiative for once, I’ll break the chain of destructive relationships.  He says the fact that I feel something different than I’ve ever felt before could be my subconscious telling me it’s time to end some of my emotional struggles…he must be almost done with his car payments or something.

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i think if you really do like him you should go for it and maybe he feels the same way about you. and who knows what will happen if you try. im kind of having the same problem as you but i am feeling it for some one who is out of my reach so go for it while he is close. and hope for the best but prepare for the worst and dont regret anything.

Comment by ivette22

Thanks for the comment, it’s nice to have someone other than your shrink encourage you, lol. Keep your fingers crossed for me; I’ll have mine crossed for you!

Comment by HowYouDoinBlondie

Go for it, nothing to loose…..and for us guys its flattering to be approached so it miht clinch it for you, and at worst, at least you know where you stand and can look elsewhere ! Good Luck……..

Comment by jimmy332

you’re welcome, and i hope everything turns out alright. i know how it is most of my friends tell me to get over it, but my feelings are too strong for him, so yeah its nice to know there is other people out there that are going through the same thing i think all us that are going through this should stick together and wish each other the best, lol.

Comment by ivette22

To Jimmy332 – can I ask for your advice? If a woman you were attracted to kept dropping hints that she wanted to spend time with you, if your schedule was really busy, would you make time for her anyway? Or would you hope she would stick around long enough for your schedule to settle down a little bit?

Comment by HowYouDoinBlondie

If I’m truly honest with you, I think that if I was sure of the signs then I would make the hugest of efforts to make the time, I mean if the signs are there, this might potentially be the best thing that ever happens to you (him), so sure, I’d make the effort. I mean, if you dont show willing at the beginning theres not much hope later on is there! Having said that, every situation can be open to different interpritation, we all view what I presume are hints and suggestion rather than a direct request. Only way to sort it out for sure is to be direct. At least then you’ll have an answer, not necessarily the one you hope for but at least clarity. Its scary sure, but sometimes necessary. Anyways, I wish you all the best ………..but remember, we can over analyse things too much sometimes, nothing beats a question with only yes or no as options !!! Good luck indeed !

Comment by jimmy332

Thanks for the encouragement, I know I’m over-analyzing the situation. *heavy sigh* Men. [no offense 😉 ]

Comment by Blonde Ambition

None taken *even heavier sigh* Women ! Let us know how you get on…….

Comment by jimmy332

Things are kind of in a freeze-frame right now. He has his kids from Wednesday until Sunday and he said that when he’s with his kids the focus is 100% on them. I can’t help but be a little jealous, I’d settle for .1% being about me…But oh well, on Monday I’m going to “bump into him” in the afternoon [when he comes home for lunch, a habit which, interestingly enough, he only developed after he and I started talking] and suggest we go out on Tuesday, I’ll definetly keep you posted!

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